Hookup With Girls Not With Friends

Somebody I know says that it’s impossible for a man and a woman to be friends without ever getting involved sexually. If the act doesn’t ever take place, this person says at least one of the parties will feel strong sexual attraction and the friendship will eventually take a different turn because of it. What do you think? I think that If you want to hookup with girls or get a laid, then hookup but not with your friends, or without courting her or dating her. She’s not your fuck buddy, she is your friend so you might as well respect her.
Chances are you are currently in a situation where you have been friends with a certain woman for a while and suddenly, you realize you want to jump her bones. But, how can you know if that’s even a possibility in her mind, when it’s never been a topic between you two before? Chances are, being the sharper beings they are (whether you like to admit it or not), that she has left a tiny crack in the door open for you to sneak into if the time is ever right’. or she might have already put lock on that door and thrown away the key’ in which case, let me tell you, don’t waste your time, ’cause it’s never going to happen.
Her behavior, physically and verbally speaking, contains the clear answer to that question that’s been gnawing at you lately. Open your eyes and ears to know the truth’here are the signs that you are destined to the friend pool for life:
1. Whenever you ask her out, she always brings other friends along, making it a group outing’never, or almost never the two of you alone. This is pretty clear. When you want sexual involvement, you do anything in your power to find alone time with your prey’ avoiding friends, family, very public places’ always seeking the opportunity to attack or at least, creating the ideal ambiance for the other party to take the lead in that sense.
2. When you guys talk, she constantly refers to the friendship you share and how much she values it’how important your friendship is to her and how she’d never do anything to risk that. We all know that taking the step towards a sexual involvement implies many risks that don’t present themselves in a friendship’mainly because the odds of things not working out, are 50%’that’s a big ass percentage!! And because, if things don’t work out in a couple, many times, sadly things don’t end on a good note and weirdness sets in between both parties. Therefore, the message she’s giving you is ‘I’d never risk a sexual involvement ’cause if it didn’t work out, our friendship would die, and it’s very important to me’.
3. She avoids physical and verbal intimacy. You well know there are certain close encounters or gestures that create a sense of intimacy between two people’basically anything that makes the physical distance smaller or shorter than that between any two people would normally be’ invading the other person’s personal space, and being well received. There are also certain topics of conversation which inevitably will put you in a situation where you sharing intimate details which can be compromising. If she avoids putting herself in these positions with you’then it’s not looking good, let me tell you.
4. Flirting is our surefire way of leaving a crack open for the other to squeeze into’ it’s a way to tease and be teased pleasantly and if things are right, move into a whole other territory. If there’s none of that in your ‘friendship’, you might as well call it quits buddy!
5. She discusses other men with you. What’s one of women’s favorite topics? Men!! Talking about them, how they look, where they’ve been together and what they’ve done together’. so, if you are the recipient of such information, you might as well have boobs, ’cause you’re invisible in her sexual radar!
These indicators are aimed to save you time and effort. If your relationship falls into these patters then leave it as the friendship that it is and move onto other women for sex. Don’t say we didn’t warn you!!!